Stop being productive

Today I want to talk about a lie that society tells us: every second of your day needs to be “productive”. We are expected to always be “hustling”. Getting things done one after the other because “the grind never stops”. 

Caleb and I are guilty of always trying to be productive. When we pray together we pray that we would be productive and get everything done that we need to. I’ve had to stop myself and think about why I’m praying for productivity. What does it really mean to be productive? 

The definition of productive is: producing or able to produce large amounts of goods, crops, or other commodities. Another definition is: achieving or producing a significant amount or result.

I’m not saying that we shouldn't have goals or aim to finish our to-do lists because most times that is very necessary. I am saying that we shouldn’t put these things on a pedestal. Our lives should not revolve around productivity. There will be days we need to let go of the list, take a deep breath, and just do nothing. And be ok with it. 

I’m going to be completely honest here. It’s easy for me to do nothing. I do not have an achieving personality. At times that’s a real disadvantage, but I also understand the value of rest. I’ve seen the damage of buying into the lie of productivity. I’ve seen it turn into an addiction to work. I’ve also seen the stress that comes along with it attack mentally and physically.  

A big reason I believe I am not an achiever is because I was raised by one (love you mom). My mom is a freaking beast. She is very good at tackling a to-do list and staying focused. She thrives on a busy schedule and has always kept and stuck to a routine. Growing up my mom worked in corporate america and was a full time working mom. She worked so hard to provide for us that at times it took a toll on her mind and her body. She was often stressed and not able to rest when she wasn't at work. 

In 2010 my mom was fired from her corporate job. A job that she had given so much for was gone in an instant. She had an identity crisis that left her feeling purposeless. Her identity was wrapped up in her work and she didn't see that until it was gone. She had no idea what was next for her and was confused why God would take this job from her. 

Getting fired was life changing for my mom. A loss that in the beginning felt tragic was a saving grace for our family. She was able to take a step back from the hustle and bustle and ask God what was next. This experience taught my mom the importance of rest. It also taught me how easily our jobs can become our idols. God took away what my mom thought was her purpose to reveal to her that He had a much greater plan. 

God wants us to do our part in making our goals a reality. Don’t let the hustle and grind take the place of your Creator. God knows the desires of our heart. He knows what we long to have in this life. He also wants us to pray, let go of our dreams, and surrender them at His feet. Don’t let productivity take the place of trusting God with your life.